# How to decide what to do with your life‏

Faznasha, are you still wondering what it is 
that you want to do when you grow up? You might have 
heard that one of the most important decisions you can 
make is to find something that you love and to find 
someone to pay you for it.
 

Just think about how much happier this would make you, 
and about how many people have built a fortune by 
following their passion. But how can you decide what you 
want to do with your life so that you can get started 
right away?
 
   Here are three things to stop doing that will help:
 
   1. Being Influenced By the Opinions of Others
 
   As Napoleon Hill, the best-selling author of "Think 
and Grow Rich," said: "Opinions are the cheapest commodity
on earth." Think about it, everyone you meet has an 
opinion about what you should do with your life, what is 
the "right" or "wrong" course of action, what's smart and 
what's stupid, what's safe and what's risky... blah, blah,
 blah...
 
   The problem is that most of these opinions contradict 
one another and all of them are being given out of someone
 else's frame of reference. If you keep listening to
these, you'll always be confused, afraid or uncertain
about what you want to do with your life. If you want to
decide what  you really want, the person you should be
speaking with is always available: you.
 
   2. Chasing Financial Opportunities
 
   Money is great, and anyone who says otherwise is 
probably going to lie about other things too. But if you 
are primary motivation behind determining what you want to
do with your life is earning money, there's a very good 
chance that you'll never be happy doing it.
 
   This unhappiness will also keep you from doing it well 
which hurt your ability to earn money doing it. So if you 
want to live a successful and fulfilled life, you must
stop only chasing after opportunities to earn.
 
   3. Believing in the Word Impossible
 
   The only thing which can ever make your dream  possible
is the belief that your dream is possible. Do  we really
need to go over the long list of people in  history who
achieved things that others thought were  impossible?
 
   Thomas Edison, Walt Disney, the Wright brothers, Roger 
Bannister, Christopher Columbus, "The red paperclip guy" 
(acquired the house in less than three years through a 
series of trades which started with a red paperclip), 
Henry Ford, Pres. Roosevelt...
 
   We could go on...but the bottom line is that if you
want  to accomplish something, you're only cheating
yourself by  believing that it's impossible.   
 
Three Things to Start Doing
 
   1. Asking Yourself What You Want
 
   Again, if you want what you really want to do with your
 life, the person you should be speaking with is always 
available. Starting tonight, beginning writing in a
journal  and write down the question: "What are some
things which  I MUST do with my life before I die?" or
"What's the one  thing I've always wanted to do with my
life, but never have  for some reason?"
 
   You can probably think of many other questions like
this,  but these alone will get your subconscious mind
involved in  the process of determining what you want.
Yes, it will take  you some time...but the sooner you get
started, the sooner  you can start taking action.
 
   2. Trying New Things Based on the Above Answers
 
   No matter how much you ask yourself about what you
really  want, the real evidence will come when you start
becoming  actively involved in your answers. You might end
up trying a few different things before you either narrow
them down to what  you want, or discover a bit at a time
what your heart's  desire is. Either way, you'll never
learn by thinking and  inquisition alone. Get physically
involved in deciding what  you want, and the answer will
come much quicker.
 
   3. Looking for Needs to Fulfill
 
   Ask yourself what you see as being the most important 
needs in the world, and start finding ways that you can 
fill them. This is a great way to determine what is in 
your heart, because what you see as being the most
important  need will be just as much a reflection of your
inner desire  as it is a reality about the world around
you.
 
   Most important, make a copy of this email and start 
putting these things into practice immediately. Do it
right now.
 
   For a program that will teach you strategies that will
automatically align you with your goals and thereby attract
what you desire, check out "The Secret of Deliberate 
Manifestation":
 
   http://www.the-secret-dvd.net/go/secretofdc2.html
 
To your success,
 
Mike David
Editor
http://www.the-secret-dvd.net

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