10 Relationship Headaches and How to Fix Them‏

these 10 relationship
headaches solutions are what you need to turn things
around:

   1. Low Trust

   Low trust is the most frustrating thing to deal  with
in a relationship because it brings everything else  into
question. But low trust is also easy to fix if  you take
on a proactive mindset by clarifying expectations  upfront
and keeping open lines of honest communication.

   2. Neediness

   Few things are more frustrating than the feeling  that
your partner is suffocating you with neediness.  If this
is the case, step back and ask yourself where  you need to
draw physical and emotional boundaries.

   You might even realize that not drawing boundaries  is
what is opening the door for your partner to suffocate
you.

Age and Opportunity: Are the Two Linked?

Age and Opportunity: Are the Two Linked?

   Is there really such a thing as an age where
opportunity moves on and you no longer have the option
of doing what you want to do with your life? Yes, and
that age is the age that you die at.

Three Steps to Die-Hard Optimism

1. Look for Chances to Learn
Opportunities to learn are everywhere if you know where to
look for them. For example, every failure presents an
opportunity to learn and so does every negative circumstance
which comes into your life. Oprah Winfrey once said, "I have
failed, I have learned...I have yet to learn anything from
success."



2. Look for Chances to Grow
Growth is not an option in life, it's a certainty. The
only question is whether or not you're growing into someone with
a strong character or someone who's life is governed by fear
and uncertainty.
The motivational speaker Les Brown once said that who you
become in life is more important than what you do or what you achieve. This speaks of the importance of growth and development of character, which is only possible if you treat everything as a way to make you a better person.


3. Look for Chances to Achieve
A natural consequence of learning and growing will be
achievement - which is your reward to yourself for
being a better person who has learned from the hard knocks
of life.
As long as you are focused on treating things as opportunities to learn and to grow, achievement will always come as a natural
result. As this happens, your growth will continue
and you will become a person of high achievement as well as
inspiration to others.



TIP: Write these three steps to die-hard optimism down on a note card and carry them with you everywhere you go. Make them a consistent practice in your life until being optimistic becomes an unstoppable subconscious habit.



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