Faznasha, are you still wondering what it is that you want to do when you grow up? You might have heard that one of the most important decisions you can make is to find something that you love and to find someone to pay you for it.
Just think about how much happier this would make you, and about how many people have built a fortune by following their passion. But how can you decide what you want to do with your life so that you can get started right away? Here are three things to stop doing that will help: 1. Being Influenced By the Opinions of Others As Napoleon Hill, the best-selling author of "Think and Grow Rich," said: "Opinions are the cheapest commodity on earth." Think about it, everyone you meet has an opinion about what you should do with your life, what is the "right" or "wrong" course of action, what's smart and what's stupid, what's safe and what's risky... blah, blah, blah... The problem is that most of these opinions contradict one another and all of them are being given out of someone else's frame of reference. If you keep listening to these, you'll always be confused, afraid or uncertain about what you want to do with your life. If you want to decide what you really want, the person you should be speaking with is always available: you. 2. Chasing Financial Opportunities Money is great, and anyone who says otherwise is probably going to lie about other things too. But if you are primary motivation behind determining what you want to do with your life is earning money, there's a very good chance that you'll never be happy doing it. This unhappiness will also keep you from doing it well which hurt your ability to earn money doing it. So if you want to live a successful and fulfilled life, you must stop only chasing after opportunities to earn. 3. Believing in the Word Impossible The only thing which can ever make your dream possible is the belief that your dream is possible. Do we really need to go over the long list of people in history who achieved things that others thought were impossible? Thomas Edison, Walt Disney, the Wright brothers, Roger Bannister, Christopher Columbus, "The red paperclip guy" (acquired the house in less than three years through a series of trades which started with a red paperclip), Henry Ford, Pres. Roosevelt... We could go on...but the bottom line is that if you want to accomplish something, you're only cheating yourself by believing that it's impossible. Three Things to Start Doing 1. Asking Yourself What You Want Again, if you want what you really want to do with your life, the person you should be speaking with is always available. Starting tonight, beginning writing in a journal and write down the question: "What are some things which I MUST do with my life before I die?" or "What's the one thing I've always wanted to do with my life, but never have for some reason?" You can probably think of many other questions like this, but these alone will get your subconscious mind involved in the process of determining what you want. Yes, it will take you some time...but the sooner you get started, the sooner you can start taking action. 2. Trying New Things Based on the Above Answers No matter how much you ask yourself about what you really want, the real evidence will come when you start becoming actively involved in your answers. You might end up trying a few different things before you either narrow them down to what you want, or discover a bit at a time what your heart's desire is. Either way, you'll never learn by thinking and inquisition alone. Get physically involved in deciding what you want, and the answer will come much quicker. 3. Looking for Needs to Fulfill Ask yourself what you see as being the most important needs in the world, and start finding ways that you can fill them. This is a great way to determine what is in your heart, because what you see as being the most important need will be just as much a reflection of your inner desire as it is a reality about the world around you. Most important, make a copy of this email and start putting these things into practice immediately. Do it right now. For a program that will teach you strategies that will automatically align you with your goals and thereby attract what you desire, check out "The Secret of Deliberate Manifestation": http://www.the-secret-dvd.net/go/secretofdc2.html To your success, Mike David Editor http://www.the-secret-dvd.net:)sayangi diri anda...salam sayang..sayang selalu....Shikin berkongsi bukan untuk dinilai atau dikeji...ikhlas luahan hati Sayang Shikin